Friday, 29 May 2026

A Single Group with Double Identity

 

 

                           A Single Group with Double Identity

                                          By A V. Raman

(Author’s Note. To many in the North, the word Madrasis means people from the South without any regard to the geographies like Andhra, Karnataka, Kerala, and Tamil Nadu. Big cosmopolitan cities like Delhi and Mumbai have huge numbers of such Madrasis. I have lived as a Madrasi in both cities and observed the difference in their attitude and outlook.  With due apology to George Bernard Shaw**, I would say that Delhi’s and Mumbai’s Madrasis are the same as a group but widely divided in their respective lifestyle and attitude.    If Delhi’s are more bureaucratic, Mumbai’s are more entrepreneurial.

Delhi's Madrasis

 I have lived in Delhi for nearly three decades, from 1950 to 1980 as school and college student and as a junior government official. My maternal uncles and other relations were all government servants, some living there from the 1920s and used to move between Delhi and Shimla and back as the British government shifted its offices likewise. In Delhi the high-ranking officers lived close to the Central Secretariat in large bungalows with spacious lawns, hall, bed rooms with attached baths, and three or four servants’ quarters.  Lower rank officers like superintendents etc.  lived in smaller bungalows while officials like office assistants, stenographers, and Clerks lived in smaller quarters consisting of one or two rooms, kitchen and a bathroom with the latrine at the rear end of a court yard.

      

With many Subramanians and Ganesans for their names, distinction was made either with reference to the Ministry where they worked or in the Square where they lived, like Finance Subramanian, Defence Ganesan or Wilson Square Ramasubban and Lawrence Square Sivaramakrishnan. If two Sethuramans were in the same Finance ministry, then the distinction was based on the Wing/ department, such as Expenditure Sethuraman versus Controller of Capital Sethuraman.  Another distinctive clue was their pastime or leisure activities like Bhajana Samaj Krishnan or Karnataka Sangeetha Sabha Ramamurthy and these persons had high titles like Additional Secretary, Joint Secretary, etc. in their respective organisations... And in addition, there were also nicknames given and recognised by the whole community, like Bonda Srinivasan, Typhoid Krishnamurthy, and Driver Devarajan, and so on.

 

    When it came to their career in government, all Madrasis earned the unenviable reputation as honest, sincere, hard- working, efficient and with absolute integrity. The price that was paid for such appreciation was the neglect of leisure time happiness on holidays with family and friends. Many of them would have spent decades living in Delhi but had not had the time to see the Kutb  Minar, the Red Fort, Purana Qila and other historical monuments which abound in Delhi.

 

     The institutions that united them were The South India Club, The Madrasi School, The Karnatak Sangeetha Sabha, The Vaishnava Siddhantha Sabha, The Saturday Bhajana Sabhas, The Navaratri Golus and of course the Irwin Road Pilliar Koil and the adjacent Hanuman Mandir and the Baird Road Kali Koil. Apart from mutual family visits, inter-family communication was through the Tamil Vadhyar group to which the families belonged when a Sastrigal of that group came to announce the important religious events of the month and collect the monthly subscription. Integration with other communities was next to nothing for most of the Madrasis, although they collectively enjoyed the confidence of the Punjabi grocers, clothiers and other shopkeepers who gave them credit facilities liberally without question.

 

    Among the uniting institutions mentioned above, the Madrasi School occupied a predominant position as it was here that the children of all Madrasis, irrespective of the status of the parents, whether a Joint Secretary or an Upper Division Clerk, or the child of a Sastrigal or a cook, came for studies. Those were days of no dress code or uniforms, and yet all children studied in an environment of equality and fraternity The teachers, both male and female, were exceptionally devoted to their profession, took avuncular interest in each student, and were kind-hearted. Till the fifties, there was only one school on Reading Road. Even when there was no bar for students from other regions or linguistic groups for admission, the Madrasi School remained exclusively a Tamil school. Ironically, when it became a multi-branch Tamil school in its name in the sixties, called The Delhi Tamil Education Association School (DTEA), it now has both students and teachers from other parts of the country. Today the School has many branches spread across New Delhi and its suburbs and celebrated its centenary.

     The Madrasis were a powerful group in the Central Secretariat. Their network was strongly knit and mutually helpful. Any special attention or facility in AIIMS, Safdarjung and other government hospitals was arranged by a Madrasi Jt. Secretary in the Health Ministry, while a Madrasi officer in Civil Supplies Department took care of additional allotment of sugar and Maida for a Madrasi wedding. Acquiring of land and construction of the many temples in the sixties and seventies in New Delhi was mainly because of the initiative and strength of this network.  

 

     Most of the Madrasis of my time in Delhi have retired, while some continue to live in Delhi in their retired lives in housing colonies in faraway places bordering U.P and Haryana, their post- retirement life and interests are confined within these areas mainly centring the local temple. They re-live their experience recalling some happy and. A few have gone back to their native towns or villages in South India to a quiet life.   Only a few of their next generation have opted to be government servants and continue to constitute Delhi’s Madrasis. The Tamil population in Delhi is around 10 lakhs now lakhs comprising sizable numbers employed in private sector companies, as self- employed professionals, as traders and service providers etc.  Yet, there is still a lot many of them working in or retired from public - sector organisations like banks, insurance companies, STC, MMTC, Delhi State government offices, etc. So, the Delhi is still a government city by and large and smells bureaucratic Delhi Madrasis are, at heart, Sarkari animals. They populated the ministries of Shastri Bhawan and the corridors of the UPSC. Success to a Delhi Madrasi is defined by three things: a permanent government pension, an allotment of a Type-IV quarter, and a daughter who cleared the Civil Services. The Delhi Mama speaks in files, notifications, and protocol. He has mastered the art of looking incredibly busy while doing absolutely nothing, a crucial trait absorbed from his Punjabi colleagues. His cynicism is sharp, intellectual, and masked behind a polite, bilingual

Mumbai’s Madrasis

The Mumbai Madrasi has a very different story. He did not arrive with government postings but with ambition, relatives and one address in Matunga or Chembur scribbled on paper. Mumbai transformed the Madrasis into bankers, restaurateurs, railway employees, Udupi hotel owners, accountants, tuition masters, and eventually IT professionals.

The Mumbai Madrasi’s real university was not IIT but the suburban railway but Mumbai gave something Delhi never fully could: social blending. The Mumbai Madrasi became part-Marathi, part-Gujarati and part-Mumbaikar. He learnt to eat vada pav without betraying dosa ancestry. His Tamil acquired Marathi punctuation. His children spoke in a linguistic khichdi that linguists may someday classify as an endangered dialect. A typical Mumbai Madrasi of yore would take one look at the local train map and claim Matunga and Chembur as his holy land. Here, space is a luxury. The Mumbai Madrasi lives in a flat so small that if Mama does his morning Sandhyavandanam (prayers) too vigorously, his elbow hits the neighbour’s kitchen.

The legendary Chembur Mama is a creature of the private sector—either a chartered accountant, a bank manager at Nariman Point, or a statistician.  He values efficiency over status. He doesn't care about government bungalows; he cares about his local train first-class pass and the current valuation of his mutual funds. He is completely stripped of the Delhi snobbishness. He will argue with a vegetable vendor over two rupees of coriander, save fifty thousand rupees on his income tax through complex legal loopholes, and then donate a lakh to the local temple without batting an eyelid.

 Mumbai Madrasis too have unifying institutions like the Shanmukananda Sabha, South Indian Education Society and its schools and colleges, the Fine Arts Society in Chembur, and the Bhajana Samaj and temples in Matunga and in suburbs like Mulund with heavy Madrasi population and last but not least the ubiquitous Kamat and Shetty restaurants all over the metropolis. The Onam celebrations and the associated Sadia feasts are other uniting factors. Mumbai Madrasis are financially practical. They tracked mutual funds while complaining about coconut prices. Mumbai gave them freedom. The city cared less about where you came from and more about whether you paid rent on time. A Madrasi in Mumbai could reinvent himself. The son of a railway clerk could become a banker, actor, entrepreneur, or software engineer. Mumbai’s cosmopolitan chaos diluted rigid identities. And unlike Delhi, Mumbai never freezes South Indians during winter.

The Second-Generation Revolution

Today’s younger generation of Madrasis, both in Delhi and Mumbai, has evolved dramatically: they eat sushi without guilt. They speak English more fluently than their mother tongue. They know Spotify better than Thyagaraja. They debate startup funding instead of Carnatic ragas.

Conclusion: Two Cities, One Filter Coffee

Delhi’s Madrasi became disciplined, intellectual and institution-oriented. Mumbai’s Madrasi became adaptive, entrepreneurial and socially blended. One mastered bureaucracy. The other mastered survival. One conquered ministries. The other conquered local trains.

Top of Form

Bottom of Form

The Verdict: Who is the Real Madrasi?

To compare the two is to compare a vintage, slow-moving government file with a high-frequency algorithmic trade.

· The Delhi Madrasis won the battle of space and status. They got the large flats, the green lawns, the administrative clout, and a vocabulary that allows them to stand up to a volatile Delhi autowallah with a calm, bureaucratic stare.

· The Mumbai Madrasis won the battle of survival and soul. They stayed closer to the coastal air, mastered the art of financial independence, and learned to find absolute bliss in a two-minute cup of kaapi standing on a crowded footpath while the monsoon hits the city.

One looks up at the corridors of power; the other looks down at the bottom line of the balance sheet. But should you ever place a perfectly crisp idli and a bowl of steaming hot, uncompromised home-made sambhar between them, the geopolitical borders vanish instantly. Both will forget the city outside, click their tongues in unison, and exclaim: Nothing to beat filter coffee

(**England and America are two countries separated by a common language-GBS)

Monday, 9 March 2026

  

 

Women’s Day Musings

The 8th  of March each year   is   observed  globally as Women’s Day  in  honor of   women for their qualities of courage ,compassion, and resilience and in recognition of their rights to equal opportunities, education, and respect . Women leaders like our own Indira Gandhi, Margret Thatcher, Sirimavo Bandaranaike inspired awe and fear in men including their male counterparts . Indira Gandhi was even called the only Man in her cabinet which in my opinion is not acceptable. Such description puts  man   on  a higher status for the woman to  break the  glass ceiling to claim equality - a notion  very antithesis of the spirit underlying  Women’s Day

My adoration of women began early in my life and lasted  till  I married one. For most married men,  a  sense of fear of the wife develops affecting their relationship.  Even the most courageous husband appears  afraid of  his better half.  Incidentally,  the phrase better- half  for the wife seems apt because the  man’s other half is filled only with fear for her.  Mythology is silent about Gods who have their spouses in half their bodies referring to them as better halves.

Most  husbands who  outside their homes  act and roar like  lions become meek and weak like  lambs  in the presence of their wives.   There is the famous story about a  queue of men outside the Pearly  Gate waiting for admission to Heaven when the person managing the queue asked those who feared their wives to stand in one line and the others in another line. All lined up in one line  except one man  who stood alone in a separate  line. When  asked whether  he did not fear his wife, he answered that that his wife had told him not to stand in the same line with others!  Or the other one about a man who avowed before the idol of Ganesha that he would break a hundred coconuts if the journey he was going on with his wife would be safe. At this  the wife was furious with rage and gave him a look with her  eyes brimming fire. He shivered and hid his face from Ganesha with a hand and whispered to her that it was only a “Jumla”  

In Bharat , we had followed the principle of  man  superior, pun unintended, at home till the radical, worldwide second wave feminist movement in the late 1960s through the 1980s alerted  us about equality of genders, not merely for voting but also in house chores like washing, cooking and baby- sitting, etc. However,  governments  in Maharashtra , Bihar, Tamil Nadu etc.  do not seem to be  convinced by this equality argument. They pay  cash,  provide free ride in Buses and Metro only to women.  Are they too afraid of women ?    

Try as I might to get my wife treating me like husband of  yore, I confess I have failed. In the formative years of our married life, I would follow the laissez faire policy, which in one of my books on political science, was explained as “let the sleeping dogs lie” policy. But not anymore,  after nearly sixty years, I now gather some courage to air my opinion on  domestic, national, international issues and  topics ranging from local vegetable prices in APMC market in Mumbai, MeToo campaigns in Mollywood and elsewhere, destruction and construction of places of worship, global warming, water seepage seen on the Taj Mahal and other miscellaneous matters like Chandrayan, the comment of our PM that the  present era is of peace and not war and yet two of his friends have not heeded leading to the ongoing Iran-US-Israel War.

While I willingly share all my opinions with my wife, she more often than not turns a deaf year and lo and behold, shows deep scorn.  This has led me feel total disappointment since even the one closest to me fails to acknowledge my extensive wisdom and all  the good qualities I possess and exhibit.  While I was in service in semi-government offices and later as faculty in management training/education institutions, I used to receive,  expectedly of course,   encomiums about my intelligence and oration from  my subordinates and  students respectively. Now even the group of senior citizens  I meet in our Cooperative Housing Society  have stopped  praising  my erudition in Hindi despite  being a Tamil.

All the above notwithstanding,  what disappoints me the most is that  my wife  does not appreciate  my astute political analysis vis -a -vis Karnataka elections or my insightful interpretation of the New Education Policy 2020 or NCERT’s rationalization of school syllabi or  my profound musical heritage. The last talent extends to all forms of music ranging from classical Carnatic to Hindustani to film music and  even the  jingles in TV advertisements  like the one on Rajasthan’s march of progress.      

During our morning ritual of sipping coffee  at the dining table when the social distance between us is narrow, the wife sits like Rodin’s statue ”The Thinker”. The invigorating coffee sets me narrating to her one or the other of my virtues. Nothing moves her and  she sits there as if to prove the old adage that No Man is a hero to his Woman. At the most,  her response on these occasions is confined  to listing my  tasks for the day such as cutting the sturdy 2 kg yam for making chips,   buying groceries including broomstick and mop cloth or getting the Society electrician to repair the non-functional geyser switch in the bathroom.  As if this was not bad enough, she would point out to  my dhoti slipping often and chide me to tie and secure it firmly  so that I don’t walk like Mammooti and Mohandas in Malayalam films  holding one end of the dhoti.

Like the Feminist Movement, I wish there was a Movement of Anguished Husbands to secure for them dignity, acknowledgement, and forbearance of their qualities of peaceful co-existence with their respective wives.

 N.B. This blog issues with my wife’s permission!

Thursday, 19 February 2026

 

The Two Sides of Cricket

This week, there were  two  unique cricket-related news. One was the victory of the Indian side in  the match against Pakistan in a  World Cup engagement and the other was the  joint appeal signed by some of celebrated cricketers of the world  demanding that  the Pakistan government treat the imprisoned former Pakistan cricket captain  Imran Khan with basic dignity and provide him urgent medical care.

Thes two news represent the two sides of generational change in cricket. The first news relates the absence of the time -tested  handshake by the two captains at the end of the game a la what happened  in the final of the Asia Cup  match in Dubai a few days ago. Then too the Indian captain walked away without shaking hands with Pak players or their captain. It was thought  that this  cricket win  against Pakistan is the fittest reply and true decider of Operation Sindhoor against Pakistani terrorists.  A win or loss in a cricket match,   like in any other game,   is a  test of skill of the players. It has nothing to do with a country’s relations with another country.  By repeating the cold and unfriendly gesture of not shaking hands once again in a T20 World Cup match, the Indian team has set  a legacy of enmity not just with the players of the other side but also  the country they represent. . In any match the two playing sides are merely  rivals for the duration of  the game . They are not enemies by any standard. Players are influencers of public perception and  opinion. It was therefore no surprise that GenZ spectators were heard saying , like a war cry, ”crush / destroy the enemy”. The  Sports correspondent of The Economic Times captioned  his report “Another emphatic victory, another missing handshake- history may judge Suryakumars’s India unkindly……Surya , the captain is winner, but as a leader he stands diminished”. On the same note, I ended my  blog on the Dubai game,  “In Dubai, we won a game of cricket  but lost its spirit. “

In the second case ,  14 former celebrated cricketers spanning six decades of the game and from every cricket playing country have in a joint appeal for treating Imran Khan with  dignity and humaneness The Appeal mentions their understanding ,as cricketers , of the values of fair play, honour and respect governing their behaviour in and out of the field  and states “ A  person of Imran Khan’s stature deserves to be treated with the dignity  befitting a former national leader and a global sporting icon ……….Our shared history on the field  reminds us that rivalry ends when the stumps are drawn – and respect endures” . It is imperative to note the sentiments of respect and humanness expressed by the former players for another  player who might have even captained a rival team against them. This s points out the other side where  past players have exhibited humane sentiments for a player serving his term.  

The two news may also be seen as representing  the change in the characteristics of the game of  cricket  form  the  5 -day Test  to the present  T20 game lasting just a little over 3 hours.  The Test match reflected patience and artistry like the batters scoring through elegant off -drives , late- cuts and leg -sweeps and the pace  bowlers using  speed and swing and spinners  employing  deceit of hand and wrist and the googly. On the other side,  the T20 game  reflets  the batter’s aggression, the swing for the helicopter shot  and spooning  of the bat  over the wicket keeper’s head.  They may provide thrill for the generational change in spectators but it is not cricket  as the saying goes.

Let us make cricket a Gentlemen’s game again.